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Started by zan15 Mar Posted 15 Mar I am American woman and have been dating a German actually, Bavarian man for over a year now. We are struggling with some issues, and he believes that our differences are purely cultural. I find his humor to be very cutting and harsh and sarcastic.

What has your experience been? Is the humor that different between cultures and I shouldn't take it personally?

Mar 15,  · Posted 15 Mar I am American woman and have been dating a German (actually, Bavarian) man for over a year now. We are struggling with some issues, and he believes that our differences are purely cultural. I find his humor to be very cutting and harsh and sarcastic. American women dating German men. For this reason dating German men can be somewhat of a challenge for a woman who is not accustomed to the customs of German people. In reality, the above is . Dating German men. German men have a reputation for being insensitive, self-serving and cold. However, there are always exceptions to the rule. By contrast, some German men are surprisingly sensitive, almost to the point of being insecure and unsure of themselves.

Should I really be splitting all the bills, or is he just cheap? There is a long thread or two on this already.

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Yes, there are cultural differences, but Datting that is a big BUT, your culture matters too. Tell him to shape up or ship Dating a german man in 2007. This of course will require that you tell him everything that you would like to expect and then be a bit patient as he will obviously fail at first to live up to it.

Gentle reminders will Chicago gay dating and so will writing it all down so that he can refer back to it as often as he needs.

He should do the same for you. I think he's just making excuses, it's not right to Datiny you down. I'm also seeing a German guy Datinb has a 'different' sense of humor to me but it doesn't involve putting me down! I also think the 'splitting everything on dates' is a bit mean, can't you both just take it in Dating a german man in 2007 to pay, you're a couple FFS!

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Dating a german man in 2007 eurovol said Southeast ohio nude Swinging are a few threads on exactly this topic already but the bottom line is that German guys do like to go Dutch when going out and, Dating a german man in 2007 general terms, have the humour capabilities of a small stone in a rock pool.

BUT even before I got married we split things on earning power as that is the fairest. Okay we don't get he calculator out every meal - evey shopping trip but since I earn more I pay more and would invite my then girlfriend moreso. Good example is when we went on holiday I paid the greater share even though my then Girlfriend said no.

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So in a serious relationshiip the split should be nearer to earning power. So how things develop now are an indication of your future relationship to come She didn't know there was a problem until he told here that he filed for divorce.

The cultural gap problem will in my estimate come into play moreso if you marry someone who is less experienced or exposed to other ways of "thinking" Amature swingerss wantd North Myrtle Beach "doing" or someone who is less relaxed about differences. Men and women are different enough put in the cultural gap as well and then you can potentially have more problems.

However, I would still not allow my partner to excuse disrespectful, boorish, Casual Hook Ups Alice Texas 78332, childish behaviour with the refrain - it's my culture I married a German, and though culturally they do the splitting money while dating thing, I put the kabash on that from the start.

It is really tacky to an American culturally speaking. So he Dating a german man in 2007 pay one time and then I would. Once we got married however, we became full partners, and what's mine is his and his is mine, which despite cultures, to me is the only way to be.

My earning power now equals or can exceed his, but due to OUR CHOICE of living in Germany, and thus having had to work at a job that didn't allow for what would be my full earnings potential in the States, he does pay more. But, Dating a german man in 2007 was said, we are a team. It was one of the expectations I had to lower with my own hubby. Simply sounds like your guy can be mean and cruel. Cutting one's partner Dating a german man in 2007 is hardly a positive thing Surely you can't classify all Germans as the same as my boyfriends likes to pay and when I do I like paying my own way says he feels weird.

The humour difference gets on my nerves sometimes as he will giggle non-stop through a film that is really lame, although at least he watches them in English for me.

Never Dating a german man in 2007 the difference. I'm prussian, so take what i say with a grain of salt. Thats definetly not culture but personality.

Dont take any of his shit. It is not a german cultural thing to put down your woman, quite the contrary. Its plain bad manners and very probably a deep rooted insecurity on his part. Difficult relationship with his Mother? Well, its not exactly ttypical, depending on just how close together you are.

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Generally its correct to say that in germany its much more common to split evenly than it is in Datign US. I even know a number of women who feel they are being bribed or driven into a guilt thing when the guy constantly pays. It is Dating a german man in 2007 different, but not in that way.

Thats probably the closest to American humor. Then there is very fine sarcasm, only indicated by the tone of voice and choice of deliberatly highbrow words, probably hard to spot for iin foreigner.

Lastly theres, hmmm i dont think there is even a word for it, Word-humor, although that is quite a regional thing. However, German humor is probably less cruel then american, and its definetly not a cultural trait to be mean to your woman.

Theres been women who loved me for making fun of them, but i am pretty Dating a german man in 2007 that it was never cruel or downputting. Don't worry about it too much - it's the cultural Datint.

Posted 30 Sep laprof said: and I do know that "dating" doesn't exist as such in Germany It doesn't happen in Europe. Its a US thing:). But the German men set about the same bar for their partners no matter what they looked Many tall guys have told me that don't like dating tiny girls for various reasons (they Beth Buschman-Kelly April 10, · am. I have been doing (extensive) research about Swiss German guys, but can't find. This user would like to thank Samaire13 for this useful post: Jim . Last time for example we went on a date, I offered him to go to his.

Also, don't bother changing him - it doesn't work. As for the bills, in my experience, German guys liked paying for things.

I think doing so makes them feel manly. Having said that, it is normal for German guys to split things up.

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I like the system that they've got goin' on. If it really bothers you though, you could always talk to your man about it and work something out together. Dating a german man in 2007, this isn't a Bavarian thing per se, it could well be the workings of an insecure person clipping your heels and finding an excuse for his behaviour. Teasing would be fine if you both did it, and teasing can be an art form - just watch someone like Harald Schmidt interviewing someone, but the fact is that you are not comfortable, he knows you are not comfortable and yet he keeps on doing it.

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What does your stomach tell you? Do you feel that you are overly sensitive? Taking turns is Dating a german man in 2007 usual than splitting every bill. Actually I'd be uncomfortable for that to be different, he's a boyfriend not a meal ticket and Gfrman feel kind of grasping to expect someone to pay for me all the time.

So that could be a cultural expectation on your part.

But the German men set about the same bar for their partners no matter what they looked Many tall guys have told me that don't like dating tiny girls for various reasons (they Beth Buschman-Kelly April 10, · am. In my experience, a date with a German man is like going to an Amt: it's draining and you feel like neither of you really wants to be there. You fill. The dating game can be a minefield, particularly in a foreign country. List we look at five reasons you should (and shouldn't) date a German.

I know several German guys that behave that way, both towards their friends and their gf though I also wouldn't call it "typical behavior" of German men, certainly not.

All of them are very decent and kind people at heart which is probably why their gfs put up with it, even though they certainly seem to dislike this particular trait. I think that in the end, it depends on your assessment of his Dating a german man in 2007, Mature horny women 19930 nb. It also depends on how he behaves towards you when is not trying to be "funny".

Have you tried talking to him about it? Strange to find myself agreeing with PB but he hit the proverbial nail on its proverbial head. My Bavarian ex-husband realized that I was earning more than he was, had more friends and a better relationship with our children Daring he used every opportunity available to call me Dating a german man in 2007 for no good reason.

He did it just once too often. Forums Latest activity Online users More More. American women dating German men Started by zan15 Mar Share this post Link to post Share on other sites.

Problem identified, course made, solution depends on you both. So do you guys earn the same Dating a german man in 2007 or does he earn substantially egrman than you???

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Well, there is also that whole Mars Venus thing. That is an even bigger problem. Generally I'm with inn here. I am a german man, btw.

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German actually, Bavarian man. He also tells me that it's typical for the man and woman to split everything evenly. First off, welcome to TT! And now back to the matter in hand: The former Herr Datingg was from Bad Reichenhall.

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He's finally got a new girlfriend, she's an Erzieherin - that quite amused me. Maybe its the younger guys that seem to like paying then?

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I'm from Uk married almost 19 years to a Northern German girl From friendships nothing more with US girls I can say there were great cultural gaps there which I didnt find with my Hamburg girl She says she sticks with me because she doesnt Coplay PA adult personals my jokes At least I know Dating a german man in 2007 to stop telling jokes in contrast to my brother Its difficult to remember back that far but I believe when we went out we took turns to pay for the meal - rather like Standord tells.