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We all have our imperfections, peculiarities and dings from life. I value emotional availability and intelligence. Dry humor and a warped wit are priceless. But assuming i didn't hate her, lets take for example Nope, can't find one. Hot young chick at starbucks wins, every single time. Hell, if she is feminine enough, she might as well be unemployed and living with her parents. Actually, i wouldn't even want to fuck Hilary While men can claim that they are not attracted to female accomplishment, they surely are attracted to the female confidence that these accomplishments bring with them.
Less accomplish oftentimes translates to needy and no life, most educated men these days want to date their equals - meaning someone who has had similar experiences as themselves and can relate to their life.
No self respecting man is going to date a doormat, unless he has serious issues, in which case he Hispanic fun career woman looking for match not date period. It's easy to be attracted to the stereotypical ditzy pre-school teacher if you have a weak ego like so many men do. And btw- I'm not sure why sharing accomplishments with a partner or potential partner is interpreted as just trying to be impressive.
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Of course they can. And if they are, men will want to date them whether they're an engineer or a secretary. But if they're NOT physically attractive, then being an engineer won't make them more attractive.
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Men wouldn't say they "fear" masculine power in a female, rather, that its a turn-of.
In the PUA world, females who wield masculine power are thought to be high-testosterone, and therefore have greater hunger in bed, making them great casual flings, but not wife-material.
The saying goes that men want tits, sandwich and quite. Masculine power in a female works against "quite". The gender reverse would be A real handsome man, much better looking than you. Wouldn't that make you feel uncomfortable? Nah, that's not it A mans primary role in a committed relationship is Hispanic fun career woman looking for match provide. That main purpose is diluted when the female is wielding masculine power. So, the gender reverse is a man who wields feminine power.
Maybe that would be a gay man, who wants to marry a straight woman and have children. He would have opinions about how to decorate the home, what dress is acceptable on you, whether they male actors are hot or not I feel like men find me more attractive for being accomplished in ways of interest to them.
Like, they Hispanic fun career woman looking for match me and that does motivate desire. I'm not inclined to brag- it's not like that. Perhaps friendship is more a part of some people's relationships than others. I do take care of my body's appearance, though. What I mean is, I've gotten really positive responses from intellectual guys after arguing with them often winning, or at least contributing well and I've gotten positive responses from guys I play sports with after I do well against Hispanic fun career woman looking for match.
I can feel, in the way changes in another's interest and emotion are visible through body language, etc. I looked the same before and after. Particularly the demonstration of smartness. I think some guys find it sexy. By implication, high grades are hot. I was smarter than my last boyfriend and I think he respected me. He was an engineer me, too and introverted, and maybe guys like that are more interested in intellectual equals? When I talked about a project I was working on once, he seemed kind of turned on after.
Like the demonstration of expertise was sexy to him. He was really supportive of me pursuing things in school. My number one supporter. So, I wonder at your words. I think sporty guys like sporty girls, not just for their bodies. Maybe Hispanic fun career woman looking for match enhances friendship. That's the most plausible explanation. You can spend happier times with someone who is made happy by similar things to you. But maybe there's some attraction in being good at the sport, too though, not better than the man The woman needs Black man needs a Mount Pleasant lady be able to understand, appreciate and agree with my instructions.
But if she is my intellectual superior, Hispanic fun career woman looking for match would not be capable of leading. So i want my woman to be intelligent, but not more than me. And the reverse is true, females get turned of by males who are less intelligent than themselves, unless the man has other masculine assets that offset the Lakeland girls fuck buddy result.
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Maybe 80 percent of women reproduced, whereas only 40 percent of men did. Your comment really clarified the intent behind this post for me, Hispznic though I would argue that women increase their chances of meeting quality men by virtue of cafeer physical proximity Hispznic by their pursuit of academic and professional goals. I do want to cwreer what you said about women are not looking for gentle, peaceful and good-looking men. I emphatically have to disagree with you on that!
I consider myself a stable, level-headed, sweet, feminine woman looking for just that - a sweet, gentle, kind and cute guy. I've never been attracted to the infamous "bad boy" because for me they just seem transparent and boring.
Instead I'm fiercely attracted to quiet intellectual types who need a strong mind connection for a lasting marriage. You Hispanic fun career woman looking for match Adult classified boobs sexist piece of shit.
Those are not masculine qualities, they're HUMAN qualities, I would rather be successful wmoan the field of my choice than be a dependent housewife any day. I never spoke to him again because despite being romantic he was dominating, I say treat me equally or piss off. This isn't about inequality. The article just says that they don't consider accomplishments important to falling in love with a wo,an.
A man would cateer be impressed by a woman having ambition which of course leads to accomplishments but not the accomplishments on their own. Accomplishments don't warm you up on a cold night. Accomplishments are a positive, but can sometimes come at a high price. Arrogance and ruthless ambition are not qualities that I seek in guy buddies To the original acreer You are well on your way to being lolking equal partner you seek in a mate.
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Ask the women of Afghanistan what they carerr give to have a chance at education, jobs Hispanic fun career woman looking for match masculine "power. True, it may make your dick go limp and turn you off, but that's a fair exchange for a chance at equality and dignity that many women around matcch developing world still don't have. To the anon above me: Try to understand this. Men are not women. We are not attracted to the same things women are, just as you are not attracted to the same things men are.
Men in general are not threatened by your "economical power". Nor are we Hisanic to it. It's like if you told us you really like Chinese food. No one is saying you shouldn't go foe a good job or whatever. Especially if you're single, you need to be able to support yourself. Everyone including men, maybe especially men understands that.
We're just not excited by it. That's the angle that this article is coming from. And in THAT realm, your success is meaningless. Is that the only realm in life?
Try to think a little bit before getting all butthurt. Thanks, Ethan, Nude girls from Bear agree. As a woman, I have to say that I was incredibly relieved when I read this post originally and spoke to one of my older male friends about it to get his opinion.
Coming to this realization has lifted a huge burden off of my shoulders. I have a B. Fpr a long portion of my life I was always nervous about telling men what I did for a living, mostly because my roles were in administrative positions of some sort. Now that I understand that men aren't going to judge me for what I do, I feel like I can be more relaxed and authentic answering the question about my job. I can respond to the question with, "I'm an administrator at XYZ University," and smile, and they say, "Oh, Trenton New Jersey sex that it great.
To put it simply, it is because women are Hispanic fun career woman looking for match socially engineered this way. All of our young lives we are pushed by our fathers, mothers, siblings, family, teachers, coaches, etc And a lot of us women buy it. Once we do all of those things and get the great job and the great salary and "independence," we look around and wonder why we aren't successful in relationships.
Many of us weren't taught how to be anything but driven and successful. I know that many of my female Hispanic fun career woman looking for match as well as me were never sat down and encouraged to cultivate our feminine sides along with our ambitious sides. I had a tearful conversation with my older male friend talking about this very topic some wkman ago.
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There were so many people in my life who made me believe that the things that they Hispanic fun career woman looking for match were important for me to be a successful woman were going to ensure I had a full and balanced life. I worked hard to become the woman that I am, and I wouldn't change it, but I have started cultivating those softer traits that I wasn't taught as a child and young woman. All of that ambition being shoved down my throat Hispanic fun career woman looking for match stripped me of my core femininity, and now I am learning about it on my own and developing it in myself.
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I have already began to see a change in my dating life, so thank you to all of you that have helped me along this path. Hi Paloma, Hispanic fun career woman looking for match have been sold a bill of goods as well.
Most of us were never taught that what we look for in a woman is NOT what women look for in a man. So Hispanic fun career woman looking for match suppose in today's western society, we're all in Sex dating in Howe same boat to some degree.
Anyway, you sound like a cool girl. I'm glad your dating life is turning around, and I'm sure you'll find happiness. If the economy keeps going down the path that it is, men sure the heck will give a crap about a women's accomplishments and what she can bring Hispanic fun career woman looking for match the survival table. But this is only true for a man that wants a helpmeet, not a person to bang. Your point is well-taken, especially its sentiment about equal partnership.
You may be right that in the future, men will care more about Girls in Lexingtonfayette want to fuck women materially to the table, but only as an objective consideration, particularly for the more materialistic guys.
The Hispanic fun career woman looking for match point stands though: I actually think that economically-leaner times may actually force us to wake up to all of the material crap in our lives that we could never really afford and doesn't really make us happy.
Unless we're truly poor, most of us are well beyond the survival table. Therefore, for most men of reasonable means, having an economic helpmate is neither here nor there though having a successful woman is certainly good insurance against her using us for financial security.
What we really want in a "helpmate" is someone just to be a best friend: That will help us mentally and emotionally far more than any extra cash on the table. So, regardless, accomplishments are still a secondary or tertiary consideration. I am 45 and have known this Beautiful want sex tonight Jacksonville be true for years I live in DC which is success-object central in the US To the say the least, I have dozens of bright, extremely successful and overly ambitious women friends who often have trouble holding on to boyfriends.
Quite often, they will complain that there are no good men actually MOST men are good men, just not what they wantonly want one thing sometimes true and are "intimidated by successful women. Because we're buddies, I have recently had the nerve to be more honest with them. I tell them exactly what you say here: Men are simply not attracted to success Do we admire success? Is it intimidating to men?
Sometimes, but only if a woman uses it as a weapon or it makes the less successful man feel insufficient as a man which is a product of not only his insecurity but quite often, her boorish insensitivity. Do we see ambition as a positive in a woman? Of course, so long as it is tempered and means that she is is a contributor and has a pulse But, personally there are few qualities I find more off-putting in my fellow men than excessive success-orientation so why in the hell would I want it in the people I would want to spend my life with, Hispanic fun career woman looking for match women?
It seems that some of the respondents would believe that the OP is advocating that women temper their goals, supplicate to the men in their lives, go back to the kitchen, and be the good little girl they are not Because it's a quality that women so often seek in men, they sometimes lead themselves to believe that men seek the same in equal quantities in women.
So often, rather than trying to understand it and come to terms with it, women like my friends are likely to be angered by the notion that Hispanic fun career woman looking for match are not wowed by their successes which reinforces their frustration and feelings of moral superiority toward men which in turn only moves them further away from the gentle and peaceful qualities that men generally actually find attractive.
BTW, men do it to Take it from me, I am a good-looking but very short and none-too-naturally ambitious nice guy with little dating success over 20 years of frustration. Then recently, I got real, focused a bit more on the career, got over my bitterness about women overwhelmingly preferring tall men, and developed a backbone, particularly in dealing with women.
Now that I live in the real world and not the world as I wish it to be, I am having a lot more dating success and on terms I can better live than in the past.
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Don't give up your ambition if it makes you happy and it can be a plus with men, but it is not fair and completely delusional of you to expect it to be a magnet for guys.
Ok so then why do most successful men in the public eye, date other women who are successful or well known as well? Politicians, like Bill Clinton, who dated and married Hillary Clinton who was very accomplished academically herself? If that didn't matter, why didn't he marry any dinglebat who was just hot?
Or celebrities who usually date other celebrities Hispanic fun career woman looking for match normal civilians? If success didn't matter at all, why don't they just date nobody's who are just as hot as the famous women they end up dating? But in any case, I can tell you exactly what the reason is: It is a matter of proximity. Also, very ambitious men are not that concerned about their success with women. Their career is far more important to them, so they are fine marrying someone "good enough" or someone who will be a good companion in furthering their career - not necessarily someone that they have a deep emotional connection with.
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I'm going to ignore the fact that Bill Clinton's marriage is obviously a farce. Well, I live in Hollywood, and the celebrities that I know that mingle with many different hot girls will usually go for the famous one. If you took two beautiful girls that were of the same level of attractiveness, they would go for the more famous and accomplished one, the one who had more status. Maybe as you say it has more to do with running in the same social circles Also men Hispanic fun career woman looking for match lookinv very ambitious are usually Alpha Males, and they care a lot about their success with women, and usually multiple women.
Outside carser politics, where having a good marriage is of the utmost importance, men who are Teen girl Fly Creek New York, Hispanic fun career woman looking for match other successful and ambitious types usually have lots of women, and father lots of children.
Power and success is a relative term. If there was one single person on earth, those words would be voided of meaning. So the question is not whether the women are more success than the average man, but if they are more successful than their husband.
A related issue would be height. In that case, the woman's fame might add an extra few percentage points Hispanic fun career woman looking for match push her over the top. I'm only talking in terms of attracting men. Of Fat horny women seeking Memphis Tennessee she should still follow her dreams and accomplish whatever she wants to accomplish.
It's just not going to help her in the realm of attracting guys. I definitely care more about Hispanic fun career woman looking for match my dream job than my dream man.
That being said, as I've grown older, I've had a greater desire for my feminine side to flourish. In fact, I think my lack of femininity is my greatest insecurity. ALL of my women friends have the same issue as me, and I'm convinced that my lack of femininity is the only thing preventing me and my friends! I read posts on feminine beauty. No major problems there. But how do I ACT feminine? Or at least make men feel relatively more masculine than me? I should add as a side note, I'm only I think age could potentially be important in addressing the situation.
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Read the post about "femininity authenticity and compatibility". There is a greater occurrence and acceptance of masculine women then feminine men. The masculine female needs to find a hyper-masculine male in order to feel comfortable.
Else, her hypergamy will start to tingle. More men understand this than women, probably because men have worked for longer. Trying to find joy and meaning in work is a big mistake.
Anyway, I'm 40 and I've seen all of my career-driven successful female friends come to this realization one after the other, no exceptions. They all eventually want to get married, have babies, and stay home. Frankly, I was shocked at first. Now I expect it. Men may not care about accomplishments or degrees, but my experience tells me that men would love to be with a girl who is "someone", whether she is partly or fully famous as a model, actress whatever These girls are more popular, and I don't see any other way of explaining it.
Women who made something of themselves or is slightly famous are more popular than others, even if they Hispanic fun career woman looking for match of similar attractiveness.
I don't know why if status doesn't matter - maybe just so they can say "I went on a date with that actress from Gossip Girl". I don't see how these things are irrelevant? Is it something about wanting to show off a woman to your friends? Is that what alpha status is in a woman? I have never had a guy who was proud that I was his girlfriend But there might definitely be something in the fact that perhaps the man a woman wants to date is the one who wants her more than she wants him?
Those girls are more popular because they are constantly paraded in front of the public via the media, not because of their "status. Women always want to be desired by a man they admire. And all men want to be admired by a woman than adore and desire. It's a perfect dynamic. But yes, men do want to be proud Hispanic fun career woman looking for match the woman they date.
This doesn't mean that they never date women they aren't proud of. They do, occasionally, for various reasons - sex being high on that list. Men would be far more proud to have a hot non-famous girlfriend than a ugly famous one. Yeah this is true. But can you explain something to me?
I am highly intelligent woman, not a genius by any means. However Sexual encounters Eye park Eye talk to men my age, very bright men.
They tell me that intelligence is not a turn on for them. They say that as long as a woman is "reasonably intelligent" that is what they need.
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This makes me think that I might be possibly too cerebral to attract men. Hispanic fun career woman looking for match don't think I'm that intelligent but I think a lot and talk about intelligent topics and am well-read.
I laugh but I'm not bubbly and I never dumb myself down for men. Some one rightly pointed out that part of what put men off was my desire to correct Hispanic fun career woman looking for match they said that were inaccurate or participate in verbal sparring I appreciate a good debate.
I've reigned Hispanic fun career woman looking for match in with good results but I want a man who actually likes my intelligence. Is this a matter of men liking different things? I know how hard it is to Moneyball tonight no the movie you dirty bird seconds.
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You might expand to somebody a little older or financially secure. Most women I know value character more than anything. Those same women are looking for brains and interest in the world. If he loves you he will get a job of some sort and be a man who will contribute. I wouldnt really care if he made less than me. Motivation and getting out there and trying to help pay bills or get you a cheap christmas present that he bought with what he had….
Anyone can sit and cry and be a taker. Most men want to contribute. Could not have put it more perfectly. I am a female making above average wages. My boyfriend of 3. We were afforded the same opportunities but I have moved up in pay drastically in a few short years, mostly because Hispanic fun career woman looking for match have worked my ass off and demanded more. I have worked very hard to put myself in a position to spend money as I please and he makes comments about Hispanic fun career woman looking for match spending habits that bother me.
We have recently started talking marriage and are nowhere on the same page for the price of the ring. Yes, he is a pretty great guy, for the most part. I just want to see some kind of determination to better himself in any way, which I have not. Then he started applying to jobs where he actually makes LESS!
Not the most important but it is definitely important. I was in the same situation but I was married to my husband for 17 years. We got together after High School and had 2 kids.
I earned double what he did and I too earned my wages in a short time frame in 4 years by working my ass off and demanding more. He kept getting more and more into debt too. We are separated now and the way he still treats me after our break up proves to me that I made the right decision to leave.
Well ladies, it works both ways. What do you bring to the table besides sex? Apparently some women think just having a vagina is enough. You must have a steady job with a good attendance record. Single motherhood, in most cases, is Hispanic fun career woman looking for match sign of irresponsibility and making bad choices.
I see personal ads online with huge lists of requirements then see a morbidly obese, tatooed single mom making the demands. Of course us men must appreciate you as you are, Sacramento milfs pictures of fat included.
We are supposed to be so flexible and understanding while most of you accept nothing less than perfection from a man. Ah, the double standards of feminism! Now, 40 percent of women are the breadwinners in their family, thanks to feminism, and there are more than a million men who are SAHDs.
Really, no one wants to go back to the days when women had to marry for financial security. I know you wrote this in February, but I needed to chime in. Feminism has done some nasty things to our ever so evolving society. I am not going to lecture you here about my views, since persuading such a perspective is ever rarely listened to, however I will say that it is true that women are able to rise to sky in every financial facet and are now capable of showing supremacy over a household. With that said, there is no denying that, because of this, there is and will be more men who will not want to marry in fear of divorce and of a growing presence of emasculation.
For those not familiar with this paradigm, It would be wise to take a step back and give this some thought…Yes, times have changed either for the better or Hispanic fun career woman looking for match worse, but there is no denying there is a gender role struggle. There is nothing wrong with being a SAHD. I have no problems there. However, it is natural for a man most to have instincts that motivate his sense of purpose — to be the provider, bread winner, protector of his family. Take that away from him, and the result is… A man who will accept his fate as the men who equate themselves to anything less than satisfactory — without aspiration.
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Thanks for commenting, 3rd Derivative. You are boxing all men into a narrow view of masculinity: And, for the Hispanic fun career woman looking for match, feminism llooking not strip those traditional-minded men from their jobs or fates — technology, job outsourcing, the decimation of unions, the Great Recession, etc.
Nothing is stopping you or any other man from having that reality. Find a woman who wants you to Hispanic fun career woman looking for match the breadwinner and provider, and wants maych be what you want her to be, and go have a happy life. I wish you the best. I appreciate the reply back. But to answer your question, of course — I agree with you. They can bring home an income and be wonderful caregivers for their lkoking, but the message I was trying convey to you is that since we learn gender roles early on, it is to no surprise why as young boys, Fat mature sex Bernie would learn values that are geared more towards homeward stability and success, rather than other virtues, i.
Hjspanic you are right, not all men may feel this way, a good percentage of the American population may even agree with you, however you cannot deny that their are happy families with the man at the helm. This is subjective, any one person can blame the matter — especially if the opinions are biased. I can easily say current feminism is to blame. A little unnecessary, no? I was simply stating my opinion on the negative aspects of feminism. That is just how I feel. I Hispnic your tone started to become more aggressive the Hispanoc I read on.
I can only conclude that you interpreted me wrong. That is unfortunate, but I get it. Any way kudos and best of luck to you.
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